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alter.jpg (21521 bytes)Unlike the majority of Christian religions, which teach that marriage is only an earthly institution, Mormonism maintains that marriage bonds were intended to survive the grave. The survival of the marriage relationship in the afterlife is a necessary condition for exaltation, considered "the greatest of all the gifts of God." Exaltation is a state in which faithful, resurrected LDS become joint-heirs with Jesus Christ, thereby receiving the fullness of the glory of God the Father and becoming Gods themselves, who will one day create and populate worlds of their own. This somewhat unorthodox view of marriage was revealed through the Prophet Joseph Smith and is recorded in the current edition of the Doctrine and Covenants, section 135.

Early LDS Marriage Ceremonies
The earliest record we have of an LDS marriage ritual being actually performed was recorded by Joseph Smith’s scribe Warren A. Cowdery:

24 November 1835 • Tuesday
"...This evening he [Joseph Smith] had an invitation to attend a wedding at his brother Hyram Smith’s to solemnize the rights of matrimony between Newel Knight & Lydia Goldthwaite: His wife & some others accompanied him when they arrived, they found a respectable company assembled, the interview was opened by singing & prayer, Pres. Smith then requested the bridegroom, & bride, to arise and join hands, and then proceeded to make some remarks, upon the subject of marriage as follows; that it was an institution of heaven first solemnized in the garden of Eden by God himself, by the authority of everlasting Priesthood. The following is the substance of the ceremony delivered on that occasion—calling them by name you covenant to be each others companions during your lives, and discharge the duties of husband & wife in all respects, to which they gave their assent. He then pronounced them husband & wife in the name of God with many blessings, after which he dismissed the audience & returned home...."
(Source: Dean C. Jessee, ed., The Papers of Joseph Smith Volume 1 Autobiographical and Historical Writings [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Company, 1989], pp. 145-146)



On 24 September 1834 the leaders of the Mormon Church resolved to publish a volume containing the doctrines and revelations of the Church. On 17 August 1835 the assembled work was voted on and accepted by the Church. Among these was "an article on Marriage, which was accepted and adopted, and ordered to be printed, in said book, by a unanimous vote." The ceremony follows:

"1. According to the custom of all civilized nations, marriage is regulated by laws and ceremonies: therefore we believe, that all marriages in this church of Christ of Latter Day Saints, should be solemnised in a public meeting, or feast, prepared for that purpose: and that the solemnization should be performed by a presiding high priest, high priest, bishop, or elder or priest, not even prohibiting those persons who are desirous to get married, of being married by other authority. We believe that it is not right to prohibit members of this church from marrying out of the church, if it be their determination so to do, but such persons will be considered weak in the faith of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
2 Marriage should be celebrated with prayer and thanksgiving; and at the solemnization, the persons to be married, standing together, the man on the right, and the woman on the left, shall be addressed, by the person officiating, as he shall be directed by the holy Spirit; and if there be no legal objections, he shall say, calling each by their names: "You both mutually agree to be each other's companion, husband and wife, observing the legal rights belonging to this condition; that is, keeping yourselves wholly for each other, and from all others during your lives." And when they have answered "Yes," he shall pronounce them "husband and wife" in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, and by virtue of the laws of the country, and authority vested in him: "may God add his blessings and keep you to fulfill your covenants from henceforth and forever. Amen."
(Source: "Section CI. Marriage," Doctrine and Covenants [Kirtland, Ohio: F.G. Williams &Co. 1835], p.251)


MORMON TEMPLE
MARRIAGE/SEALING CEREMONY

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Kyiv Ukraine Temple


Payson Utah Temple

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Manti, Utah

The bride and the groom enter a "Sealing Room" and kneel on opposite sides of the altar and face each other. They are dressed in their full temple robes, with the robe on the right shoulder. They join hands in the Patriarchal Grip, or Sure Sign of the Nail, which signifies that the marriage ordinance is under the operation of the Melchizedek Priesthood.

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The Officiator who will perform the sealing stands at the head of the altar. Seated behind the Officiator are two witnesses to the ceremony, whose signatures will appear on the temple's marriage certificate. Guests are seated on either side of the altar.

When this ceremony is performed for dead individuals extra words are added and are represented here by the following brackets [---]

OFFICIATOR (Sealer): Brother ____, [acting as proxy for ____, who is dead] do you take sister ____ [acting as proxy for ____, who is dead] by the right hand and receive her unto yourself to be your lawful and wedded wife for time and all eternity, with a covenant and promise that you will observe and keep all the laws, rites, and ordinances pertaining to this Holy Order of Matrimony in the New and Everlasting Covenant, and this you do in the presence of God, angels, and these witnesses of your own free will and choice?

GROOM: Yes.

OFFICIATOR : Sister _____, [acting as proxy for ____, who is dead] do you take brother _____ [acting as proxy for ____ who is dead] by the right hand and give yourself to him to be his lawful and wedded wife, and for him to be your lawful and wedded husband, for time and all eternity, with a covenant and promise that you will observe and keep all the laws, rites, and ordinances pertaining to this Holy Order of Matrimony in the New and Everlasting Covenant, and this you do in the presence of God, angels, and these witnesses of your own free will and choice?

BRIDE: Yes

OFFICIATOR: By virtue of the Holy Priesthood and the authority vested in me, I pronounce you _____, and you, ____, legally and lawfully husband and wife for time and all eternity, and I seal upon you the blessings of the holy resurrection with power to come forth in the morning of the first resurrection clothed in glory, immortality, and eternal lives, and I seal upon you the blessings of kingdoms, thrones, principalities, powers, dominions and exaltations, with all the blessings of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob [and say unto you: be fruitful and multiply and replenish the earth, that you may have joy and rejoicing in the day of the Lord Jesus Christ]. All these blessings, together with all the blessings appertaining unto the New and Everlasting Covenant, I seal upon you by virtue of the Holy Priesthood, through your faithfulness, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost, Amen.

If the couple is actually being married or sealed to each other, they kiss across the altar.



TEMPLE CEREMONY FOR SEALING CHILDREN TO PARENTS

Married Couples who have had children before they joined the Mormon Church or who were married before being sealed in the temple must have their children sealed to them for time and eternity. Children born after a temple marriage are automatically sealed to their parents. These children are considered "Born under the Covenant."

The parents kneel at the wedding altar, dressed in the Robes of the Holy Priesthood, Melchizedek Order. They join hands in the Patriarchal Grip, or Sure Sign of the Nail, and the children kneel around the altar placing their right hands upon their parents's hands, beginning with the oldest child. The children are clothed in white.

When this ceremony is performed for dead individuals extra words are added and are represented here by the following brackets [---]

OFFICIATOR (SEALER): By the authority of the Holy Priesthood, I seal upon you ___, [acting as proxy for ____, who is dead] and you____, and ____, (etc. Children named in order of age) to your father ____, and to your mother ____, for time and all eternity, as an heir [or as heirs] [with all the children] as though you were born in the New and Everlasting Covenant, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost, Amen.